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September 4, 2014

My Gut Feeling..

Gut Feeling..

My gut feeling about everything in life is worked out with 90 percent success. I was in wonder when this gut feeling slipped for my gut itself.  

We all know about Endoscopy, which is looking inside a body for medical reasons using an instrument called endoscope. Endoscope is a flexible tube, having a lens and light at one end and directly inserted into our body through the mouth. It is used to investigate the stomach ailments.

My gut feelings always talk bad about this endoscopy. First I have to tell my story of why I felt like that and averted this endoscopy test for two long years. 

Before two years, when I was food poisoned (as I think so) by eating in an eatery in Nungambakkam, I vomited till my stomach emptied. There the story starts. I went to a famous Gastroenterologist, who always has a battalion of followers, ie., assistants around him. 

Preliminary was done by one of his juniors. Then the chief examined the note, not me, that his junior passed to him. Then asked a few questions to my hubby where he is working and discussed his nature of work. Then he checked me with his steth and asked his junior to scribble some medications and referred straight for the Endoscopy...

There the evil lives, I thought. I heard many stories from my friends, relatives and all. All is not well. 

My sister told me, 'after endoscopy, a throbbing pain will be there in the throat and you cant eat for two days, but dont worry.. carry on..'
My close friend told me, 'dont do that. its a waste of money. we can manage by holding a diet..' But she took the test a year ago. 
Advice !!!..
My Hubby, 'inserting a tube inside the mouth..no way..'

I feared of dreaming in nights as a long tube being thrusted into my mouth and it twirls inside my stomach like a giant anaconda. So I avoid Endoscopy altogether.

Whenever I fell sick in these two years, I just alter my diet plan. And after my stomach gets charged, I will return back to my oily foods. I didnt realise that I am making a grave mistake. 

At last, when my stomach rejects anything that I put into my mouth, including coffee (thats my favorite), I stepped into the shoes of Endoscopy. 

With open minded, what else I can do, I entered the endoscopy section. There is a child too, whose mother detailed the nearby, that he is not taking any karam..ie., spicy food. Ok, I told to myself. A small boy can take the test, why not I?

In empty stomach, I was said to lay on an examining table. Near to me three white coated men and a nurse present. One tall man with a beard, detailed about the machine that stood like a little giant beside him, in the malayalam ascent. 

'It will take only two minutes'
'Dont touch this tube'
'I'll spray a liquid which numbs your throat, that will make the passing easy. And you can swallow'
'Open your mouth and keep this round inside, thru which i can insert the tube'

He just sprayed the medicine into my mouth. Somewhat it tasted bitter. And he is still talking to divert the attention of fear, he saw in my eyes. And I know that and still listening. The nurse inserted the round and I have to bite it. He suddenly thrusted the tube and it enter my throat like roller ball. I thudded a minute. And teardrops rolled down my cheeks. 

My involuntary action is grabbing the tube to pull it out. He is saying, 'I told you, not to touch this'. Then I know why that instruction was dictated to me in the first stage. He is asking me to swallow the tube. How can I? But I did. Then no more violence.

He slid it and then told me that he is coming out now and pulled the tube out. Again its a thud, but this time I am used to it. Finished he said. Only two minutes..After that numbness had gone, no pain in my throat and all.

My earlier gut feeling about this test had failed me. Foolishly I waited for two long years to do this test and I severed my illness to an extremity. 

Simply I walked out and now I know when & where to allow my gut to speak !!!..

May 27, 2014

Rapunzel didnt wash her hair with Banana...

Sundays are made for rest. But its not always true. Just when I had my lunch and lying down a little, a msg tone sprouts up in my mobile. Its my friend in whatsapp. It states. 'Plz help me..'. 

She applied the banana treatment for her hair as per given in a home remedy from a book for treating dry hair and its not going off from her hair after shampoo wash, hot water wash and conditioner wash. Her question is how to go off with that chunks of banana.

Banana Hair Wash :

Banana wash with olive or coconut oil is recommended for dry hair in several hairstyle websites and simple home remedies websites and magazine. Some try Banana Baby food. But they wont tell the whole story at all. 

Its true that mixing of banana, olive or coconut oil, milk and optionally egg as a pack gives the hair the shininess, nutritional value. 

Procedure :

Add all those given for the pack. The bananas must be well ripened. 
Blend well in a mixer. 
Strain that mixture. That most people wont do. 
If you wont strain, the chunks sure struck in your hair threads, wont go off and irritation ignites your stress. It remains in your head(!!!) for two more days.
Apply and Wash after sometime.

My advice :

Dont try the banana wash. How much you take effort such as adding eggs, blending well,  and strain, it stick to your hair. 

If you read any beauty tips for hair or face, please go thru' forums. There the ladies discuss the odds they face while doing these things.

Some Forums :

Indus Ladies, Womens Health, Naturally Curly, Daves Garden, Women and Home, etc.,  

Be care about using these type of home remedies 
or else
you cant let down your hair like Rapunzel 
Dame Gothel would not be then climbing up by holding it... 

February 18, 2014

Facebook 2 - Enjoy...But Be Between Boundaries...

Its pretty well to talk about the famous social network as it already started biting its teeth on our Indian culture. 

Using the network for exposing our talents and skills is the best choice that we have, than other more promotions. But as we Indians gave a late entry to this network and, as always, our initial start is in a more vibrant and exaggeration mode, we use this entertainment factor for jublicating our freedom. 

Both genders are here as they say in simple way, for relaxation and then addiction becomes the appropriate word that kills their reality. They are not able break themselves from its clutch.  

Men & Girls...

Middle aged men here always act like buddhas. They pity the young girls and called them as daughter. Here in fb, always happens a relationship-breakup for these girls. When they were battered by this break, these men step in and do comfort and comfort. 

The loser girl doesn't know that the broken relationship is better than these deceitful men. Once she breaks loose of herself, this man uses this girl to his unsatisfied perversions. When his bestial passions got over, he excuses himself and go to wash the cat. 

Men & Women...

Not only young girls but also the women emotionally fall for this pretty game. After some misunderstandings, splits with few men, they got experienced on how to deal the men-matters. And starts playing the game pretty well with more and more lies and with more and more men. Well Experienced!!!...

Women here like to enjoy chatting and happy to touch the moods of various men in their network. They never urge themselves to get into a relationship, but men insist on these lines. Once they got struck, they cant come out of that. Results in dejection, then follows the fear of facing the family. Its the end of the game as whatever experienced they are. Both men and women lost their identity and pitted themselves into deep trouble. 

I used to tell my fellow women fbites that these experienced tricks wont have a success path and usually end in the wrong way. And as we guess, few of them had deactivated their account and went back to kitchen and regular walking with a heart-breaking sobbing...

Why, we, women have to go so far?...
Lets be moderate. 
Show our talents and teach the young ones a good way of social networking. 
Be an example for your friends. 

Men alone...

Mostly men are married with homely spouse and happy children. But they are unsatisfied in one thing as their women attend the grown-up children alone and not them. Practically speaking, its not possible for her to switch Off & On her mood as the light changes. If she doesnt, who will care the family? They must think in this way and try to be happy with family...

Be aware and save our culture for future...

Enjoy...But Be Between Boundaries...

More to come on Facebook Photos...